If you don't have something nice to say.....

Last night our family went to the Cedar Park Car Show.  My mom, step dad, and their friends were already there and they had Mason.  Whenever we got their the kids were all playing nearby with other children, so Cody and Hayden ran over their to play too.  It was when my sister (the boys 9 year old aunt) comes up and says Cody said something rude to another boy. She usually likes to see her nephews get in trouble, but Mason agreed that Cody did say something rude. So, I ask....

Whenever she said that Cody had told another boy that he was FAT, I am pretty sure my blood pressure shot right through the sky.  I was very upset at him.  I couldn't believe he had said that.  I am pretty sure that I have taught him better then the way he was last night.  I am big on the phrase: If you don't have something nice to say, then don't say anything at all!.  Why he felt led to say this, I have no idea.  He wears glasses and has crossed eyes.  He is the last one to be talking about others.  We are having quite some trouble with him and his lying, hitting, whining, and just being rude and disobedient.  I don't want to have to deal with him going to jail later in life because of disrespect and not obeying rules so I will address this issue until it's nipped in the bud.